HOW TO
CHOOSE
A WIFE
HOW TO
CHOOSE
A WIFE
A documentary revealing the science behind the male brain and lasting love.
How do men choose partners and successfully commit to lasting relationships?
Follow one man's journey as he wakes up to yet another failed relationship and commits to a radical self-experiment, testing all forms of 'alternative relationships' in the hopes of finding lasting happiness.
As the story unfolds, we unpack the science behind how men form and maintain lasting romantic relationships through in-depth interviews with leading experts in neuroscience, psychology, and relationships.
Duration: 90-100 minutes
Language: English
Narrative shooting locations: Lisbon, Portugal/Southern Portugal
Expert interviews: On location per interviewee
Renowned psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today's most insightful and original voices on modern relationships.
Harvard-trained American Neuropsychiatrist who revealed the neuroscience of the sexes and how we mate. Her books, The Male Brain and The Female Brain, have become bestsellers.
Acclaimed author, speaker, and teacher of embodied leadership and sacred intimacy. John's transformational men's work has resonated globally with a new generation of men.
Best known for the global bestselling phenomenon Eat, Pray, Love. Her follow-up book, Committed, has fascinated readers on the hard truths of compatibility and fidelity in a marriage.
Credited as one of the founders of evolutionary psychology, David's primary research focus has been on the strategies of human mating. He is most well-known for his studies around mate selection, tactics of mate attraction, and mating emotions.
Therapist, coach, and author of the groundbreaking book No More Mr. Nice Guy. Dr. Glover has over 30 years of experience helping men get what they want in relationships, sex, and life.
At 40, Mark confronts the aftermath of another failed romantic relationship.
Originally from London, he moved to Lisbon a year ago to escape the UK weather.
He's cast for a Dating Show where a small documentary crew follows his dating life in the city.
Things change when he attends a Men's Retreat where a charismatic 'Guru' challenges him to abandon monogamy and explore alternative forms of relationships.
The documentary crew continues to follow his journey as he sets out to become the 'tantric-ultra man'.
Casting will take place in Lisbon for the two main characters who'll undertake the exploratory journey.
Male, +/-40 years old
Native English speaker. Ideally British
Quirky/sardonic but charismatic/lovable
Struggling to find a long-term partner and own masculinity
Willing to journey deep into the new world
Men's Guru
Male, +/-50 years old
Exotic, salt-and-pepper, mystic type
Eloquent and knowledgeable about men's work, tantra, shamanism, and spiritual psychology
Potential narcissistic tendencies
Expert Interviews
June - July 2025
Narrative Filming
August - September 2025
Editing
October - November 2025
Creator/Producer
Lifelong creative entrepreneur, world-traveler, and student of self-understanding. Chad is motivated to unpack this complex topic with the hope of helping millions of men better navigate themselves and succeed in fulfilling lasting relationships.
Producer
Lisa is an Emmy and Peabody Award-winning film and television producer celebrated for her dedication to impactful and socially conscious storytelling. Her diverse body of work has garnered recognition from esteemed institutions such as BAFTA, Sundance, and the Television Academy.
Producer
Marcus is a multidisciplinary creative and award-winning documentarian whose work explores identity, culture, and creativity. His projects are immersive reflections of the human condition - crafted to connect people to purpose and serve as mirrors for self-discovery.
Cinematographer
Nick's diverse background in fiction filmmaking brings the visual language and emotional depth of scripted cinema into the documentary space. This will be his fourth feature documentary. Previous works have been selected for several film festivals and are available on Gaia.com and Amazon.
The documentary will be submitted to major film festivals and actively positioned for acquisition by one of the leading streaming platforms.